It is the night before chemo #11 and I am having a bit of trouble
sleeping. I am awake with pure dred. I always say every
week is different; that is true in many ways, but some of my side
effects are always the same. I also have about 4 emotional stages
that I go through every two weeks.
*Monday, the day of chemo, is always just a bummer. No real pain
but a lot of sleepiness and a funny feeling in my stomach. I enter my
first stage of emotions: no emotions. I try not to think about
anything and get through it as fast as I can.
*Tuesday, the day after chemo, I am still very tired. The funny
taste in my mouth begins. I am bloated from all the chemicals in
my body. My pump makes me very anxious.
*Wednesday, the next day, the day I get my pump out, is my worst
day. I have to take the most medicine this day and I get shots at
the doctor's office. All I want to do is sleep. Walking
from the car to the hospital drains me. I start getting
indigestion from every thing I eat.
*The next two days, Thursday and Friday, I feel like crap, but I am
still successfully ignoring that fact. I am tired, but not
tired enough to sleep- just tired enough to not want to leave the
house. I sit around and do nothing.
*Saturday I enter into my next emotional stage: bitterness and
anger. My jaw starts to hurt and my tounge swells up. I am
pissed that I have cancer and no one else does. The indigestion
starts to go away.
*Sunday I try to do something normal but fail because I am too tired. It pisses me off that I never feel good.
*Monday I can start running errands with my mom. The mouth pain
is beginning to stop and bad taste in my mouth goes away. My
stomach starts getting crampy.
*Tuesday begins my third emotional stage: extreme frustration.
Most of my first chemo symptoms are gone. I am not as
tired. My stomach feels like someone has cut me open and is
pouring acid on my internal organs- it is sharp, continuous pain that
cannot be eased. I tell everyone I talk to that I hate cancer.
*Wednesday is the same as Tuesday.
*Thursday my stomach starts feelilng better. I am weary of doing
anything for fear of aggrivating my stomach again. I start
getting little blisters all over my hands.
*Friday begins my last emotional stage: joy of victory over
cancer. Stomach feels great. Almost feel normal.
Continues for the rest of the weekend. Feel even better if I see
Curtis- I may even forget that I have cancer for a few hours.
*Then we start all over again.
Ah, the joys of cancer...
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Re: Two Weeks of Fun
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Friend-o-ur-dad's
on Mon 13 Sep 2004 09:53 AM CDT | Profile | Permanent Link
Kim,
One thing I didn't learn from your account is whether or not you are able to take comfort from reading during any of the 4 emotional states. Several years ago I was treated for major depression. Many well meaning friends and family members offered "helpful suggestions" for what I should read or music to which I should listen. I just thought over and over how clueless they were. I didn't feel like reading or listening to anything at all. So it is with great caution that I proceed with the following, recognizing that reading may be a huge burden to you, and you don't need any more added to what you have. If you do feel like reading, if you are able to take comfort from what you read; I did a word search in the Psalms for the word "dry" because of how you described emotional state #1. One of the occurances is in Psalm 107; I took this passage from that Psalm to share with you while you are in the emotional state of no emotions. 4 They (the redeemed) wandered in the wilderness in a desolate way; They found no city to dwell in. 5 Hungry and thirsty, Their soul fainted in them. 6 Then they cried out to the Lord in their trouble, And He delivered them out of their distresses. 7 And He led them forth by the right way, That they might go to a city for a dwelling place. 8 Oh, that men would give thanks to the Lord for His goodness, And for His wonderful works to the children of men! 9 For He satisfies the longing soul, And fills the hungry soul with goodness. May God bless you with a time of refreshment amid the dryness of stage 1, Michael Re: Two Weeks of Fun
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Friend-o-ur-dad's
on Mon 20 Sep 2004 10:03 AM CDT | Profile | Permanent Link
Kim,
From your account, i expect you are nearing the transition from anger to frustration. Both are justified. I don't know where you direct your anger; sometimes it's hard to figure that out, being angry that something horrible is happening, but not knowing where to point the finger of blame. You are still in my thoughts and prayers and we all look forward to that day when "stage 4", joy over beating cancer, is permanent. Trackbacks
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